Superheroes... In Training

 Last night I had a very hard time falling asleep. I tossed and turned and all I could think about was more that I wanted to say. I jotted them down in a note on my phone and finally was able to go to sleep. As I type this, you are in bed with your shaky vest on and watching TV. We got a bit of a later start because I fell back asleep. I woke up at 5 to turn you and you were wide awake. I tried to stay awake with you but it just didn't last. 

Sometimes I find myself getting very frustrated with my husband. You see kiddo, we see the world very differently, especially when it comes to taking care of you. Most of the time, I love doing it all on my own because it makes me feel important and strong! You are the super hero and I am your sidekick. If you and I were Batman and Robin, my hubby would be our Alfred. He likes to observe and help from the sidelines and we are the ones in the action. While Alfred is a vital person to the Batman and Robin story, I wish we were more like the Justice League. You are our greatest mission and I long for us to come together as a team, brining our own strengths, and giving you the most AMAZING life possible. 

Leaving the metaphors behind, I love the relationship you and I have built together and I wouldn't change it for the world. While things are not what I imagined them to be, you have made me the happiest mom in the world. 

Your shaky vest just ended and now its time for me to do your cough assist, which you hate with a passion. I am sorry but it is so important for you. Until later... keep teaching us how to be parents to a super hero!

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